In an industry built on collaboration, it’s strange how isolating the job search can feel. We whisper about openings. We hesitate to share leads. We measure our worth by proximity to the offer. And sometimes, in trying to secure our own future, we accidentally gatekeep someone else’s.

But here’s the truth I keep coming back to: sharing the job I applied for doesn’t mean I lose.

It means I trust there’s room for both of us.

It means I believe that generosity isn’t weakness. It’s leadership.

The Scarcity Mindset Doesn’t Serve Us

We’ve been conditioned to believe that opportunity is limited, and that someone else’s win means we’ve lost our shot. But that’s a survival script, not a leadership strategy.

• Competition might sharpen our edges. Generosity strengthens our networks.
• If I only succeed by being the last one standing, then I’ve missed the point of working in a people-first profession.
• There is no real solidarity in silence. When we don’t share, we shrink the possibility of what our industry could be.

A Rising Tide Doesn’t Just Lift Boats, It Builds Bridges

Some of the best jobs I’ve had came from someone else’s referral. A friend who shared the post. A colleague who dropped my name. Someone brave enough to believe we could both belong.

• When I share an opening, it’s not a flex or a favor. It’s an act of faith in the people I admire.
• I don’t want to be the only one in the room. I want to be surrounded by people I trust to lead, adapt, and create with care.
• Every time we lift each other up, we rewrite the rules. We remind the industry that behind the scenes doesn’t mean invisible.

Support Is the New Strategy

It’s easy to default to competition, especially when the stakes feel high. But support is a muscle we can build, together.

• Share the job. Recommend the friend. Offer a second pair of eyes on their resume.
• Celebrate their win even if it stings a little. The right fit is never a one-size role.
• Be the kind of leader who doesn’t just open doors. Hold them open long enough for someone else to walk through.

Key Takeaways

• Generosity in the job search is not naïve. It’s a bold act of leadership.
• Sharing opportunities creates space for more ethical, inclusive, and human-centered work.
• When we support each other, we transform an industry shaped by scarcity into one led by connection.