Show Notes:
Years ago, I sat down to explore how to write a personal code of ethics, and that process became a foundational turning point in how I lead. At the time, it was just a reflective exercise—something I scribbled down at the end of a long contract. But I’ve returned to that code time and time again, especially during high-stakes moments or moments of doubt.
This episode explores what I wrote back in 2019, how it’s held up, and why I still stand by those principles today. It’s not a checklist or a polished statement for others to read. It’s a compass I use to keep myself grounded, especially when the pressure rises and decisions aren’t black and white.
In fast-moving environments like theater and live events, we’re often pulled in a thousand directions. The work is urgent, the stakes are high, and leadership can feel reactive. But a personal code of ethics gives you a way to lead proactively—with values at the center, not just actions.
How to Write a Personal Code of Ethics: What You’ll Learn
- Why I wrote my personal code—and why I still use it
I break down the original moment of reflection, and how those intentions have evolved over time, but never lost relevance. - The four pillars that shape my leadership:
Growth, Relationships, Adaptability, and Courage. Each one shows up in different ways, but together they shape how I show up in teams, conflicts, and creative spaces. - How leadership and self-awareness are deeply connected
I share how noticing your own patterns, strengths, and blind spots can make or break your ability to lead with integrity. - What adaptability really looks like in live entertainment
It’s not just about solving problems fast—it’s about staying grounded while everything else shifts. - The role of courage in backstage leadership
Courage isn’t about bold speeches. It’s about showing up honestly in hard moments and advocating for what’s right even when it’s uncomfortable. - A simple process for how to write a personal code of ethics
You don’t need to overthink it. I share a few steps to help you begin writing your own code, so you can lead from a place of clarity, not chaos.
If you liked this episode, you’ll also get value from:
➜ What Stage Management Teaches Us from Backstage Banter
➜ The Ultimate Stage Manager Guide
➜ Explore the concept of personal ethics further at Ethical Leadership.org
Key Takeaways
- Knowing how to write a personal code of ethics gives you a tool for navigating uncertainty with confidence.
- Values like growth, adaptability, and courage become anchors, not just ideas.
- Leadership isn’t about being perfect—it’s about being intentional.
- Self-awareness is the root of meaningful leadership.
- Anyone can write a code. What matters is that it’s real and that you return to it when it counts.
